Not to digress from the issue itself, which is the husband’s infidelity and the son’s approval of his father’s actions, but I have a question: Why is it that women, seemingly ALL women, go through mens’ cellphones, e-mails, wallets; you name it? What is the purpose of this meaningless activity? To catch him cheating? Then what? This TEXAS WIFE WHO’S HAD IT said her husband had already been unfaithful twice. Why didn’t she dump him the first time, or the second, or all the other times she probably suspected he was being unfaithful and ignored it? Oh, I know, she loved him. Is that it?
It is said that there are two types of men: those who have cheated, and those who will. It is also said that men are as loyal as their options. It’s just the nature of the “beast” ladies. It’s engrained in our DNA to go forth and conquer. Women can deny it all they want, they can tell us this is all BS, they can say men just give excuses to justify their actions, etc., etc. But just as most women behave in a certain way, men behave in a certain way. It is what it is.
By the way, I wonder if women have ever heard of testosterone? They make sure to tell us all about their PMS and how they feel a certain way during “that time of the month” and how insensitive men are to their emotions; blah, blah, blah. Ladies, men have emotions too, it’s just that our emotions bring out different things in us than they do in you. Women nag, bitch and moan; men cheat. TGO
Refer to story below. Source: Dear Abby
By Abigail Van Buren | Dear Abby
DEAR ABBY: I have been married 18 years. In that time my husband has been unfaithful twice. Last week I was going through his cellphone and noticed from his emails that he had registered on a dating service and was exchanging photos with four women. I threw him out of the house.
What really upsets me is my 17-year-old son knew about the affairs and thinks it’s perfectly normal for his dad to have female “friends” while we were still living together. I don’t like what my soon-to-be-ex did to me, and I don’t want my son thinking it’s OK to start looking while you’re still married.
My son finds ways to excuse his father’s behavior. How can I make him understand that looking for other partners while you’re married is being unfaithful? — TEXAS WIFE WHO’S HAD IT
DEAR HAD IT: That may not be easy. Your husband, by making your son his co-conspirator (“It’ll just be between us guys”), has made him a member of the “boys club” and cliqued you out. Has your son not seen how painful this has been for you? Your almost ex-husband is a terrible role model. When your son follows in Dad’s footsteps — and there is every reason to believe he will — he will never have a successful marriage of his own.
